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Why can a small mistake feel more noticeable to you than to everyone else?

Your attention may be fixed on the word you stumbled over while other people are following the point you were making. The spotlight effect names a tendency to overestimate how much others notice our appearance or behavior. It does not mean nobody notices mistakes, and an internal feeling is not a direct measurement of the audience’s attention.

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  • What evidence would separate your estimate from what observers actually noticed?

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