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Are conversations with strangers as awkward as we expect?

Experiments comparing expected and reported awkwardness found that participants were often too pessimistic about talking with strangers, particularly about deeper topics.

3–7 min

Questions you could explore

  • What might someone misunderstand about a stranger’s interest in hearing from them?
  • How could asking people before and after a conversation test their expectations of awkwardness?

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A pause after a difficult question can sound thoughtful. A pause after a joke can feel like rejection. Silence has no words, yet we interpret it against the response we expected and the relationship we think we have.

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