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Speech by Laura Sicola

Want to sound like a leader? Start by saying your name right
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One of the hottest topics in courses and books nowadays with regard to leadership communication is the concept of executive presence. What does it mean? How do you define it? And can it be taught or learned? The Center for Talent Innovation identified three main pillars of executive presence: appearance, communication skills, and gravitas. And gravitas means things like, do your words have teeth? Are you able to make the tough decisions and stick with them? One of the missing pieces when you think about what's integrated really between the lines of broad concepts like communication skills and gravitas is vocal executive presence, as I call it. It's the missing link. How do you sound when you're making those tough decisions? Does your delivery reinforce your message and establish the image that you want, or does it undermine it? What happens if I'm trying to diffuse a tense situation and I say,"Okay, everybody, just calm down now. We need to reevaluate the situation." Well, at worst, I'm just adding fuel to the fire, and at best, you may later on gently suggest that I switch to decaf. It's about how we connect. I end up working a lot with people who are preparing for presentations and for press conferences, and they make statements like,"We're very passionate about helping children and improving the quality of our schools." And I think to myself,"Really?'Cause you could have fooled me." There's a claim of passion, but there's no evidence thereof. The problem is a disconnect between the choice of words and their execution, their delivery, and this creates a problem of credibility. Now, there's a historic and seminal study that looked at feelings and attitudes as, as a result of the consistency or inconsistency in verbal and non-verbal messaging cues. And what they found was that when they asked people to evaluate speakers as far as whether or not they thought the speaker sounded sincere, that thirty-eight percent of that evaluation was based on the tonality of the speaker's voice. Tonality being things like, uh, the ups and the downs in your intonation patterns. In contrast, only seven percent of those, uh, decisions were based on the speaker's words that they chose, and the remaining fifty-five percent were looking at non-verbal cues or based on non-verbal cues like your posture, your eye contact, et cetera. Now, this is a study. We have to be careful because lots of people love to misquote it, and you'll hear people make grand statements like,"Well, you know, fifty-five percent of all communication is non-verbal." That's not remotely accurate, and it's not what the study was talking about. But what we can take from this study and a lot of subsequent research in the area is the importance of sounding credible. Now, I'd like you to think about this in the context of how you personally prepare for some sort of presentation. Do you spend thirty-eight percent of your time working on the delivery? Well, if you're like most people, you probably spend the vast majority, if not all of your time, working on the content, your outline, your script, your PowerPoint slides, making sure you've got cool graphics and some snazzy animations, crunching your data to put into your spreadsheets. But then after all that work, we sort of wing the delivery, hoping it'll be good enough. And in the end, that's just comparatively weak, and it can undermine both your immediate goals and objectives as well as your long-term image and reputation. The fact is, if you want to be seen as a leader, you have to sound like one. You have to demonstrate vocal executive presence. Now, a part of vocal executive presence is the ability to read an audience and identify the kind of person from whom they would be most open to receiving your message and then figure out what that kind of person would sound like. Now, to an extent, we're all born with the voice that we have, but we do have a lot of control over how we use it. Margaret Thatcher is a great example thereof. She was the first woman in British Parliament, and she was overtly mocked by a lot of her opponents with phrases like,"Bethinks the lady doth screech too much," because when she was passionate in arguing certain points, her voice would go higher and become rather shrill. So when she decided to run for prime minister, she worked with a tutor from the National Theatre who helped her to lower her pitch in order to sound more authoritative. And this is really important because the voice has both cognitive and emotional effects on the listener. Let's start with the cognitive. We talked about tonality, that thirty-eight percent, the highs and the lows in your voice, and if we use this strategically, we can actually help the listener to focus on the most important words and parts of the message, which makes for a lighter processing load and helps them understand and potentially remember what we're saying, and this can have a persuasive influence. When we listen to speech, we process it in what are called tone units or chunks, and we start first by fixating on the, on the intonation pattern and anchoring what we listen to to where those highest peaks are. And then if necessary, we allow our imaginations to sort of fill in whatever's in those lower sound valleys. An example of this is in song lyrics.Now, we've all had the situation where we've been singing along to a favorite song and suddenly we realize that, or perhaps somebody else not so gently points out, that we've been singing the words wrong. Have you ever been there? There's a lot of nodding. There's a classic song, What a Wonderful World, by Louis Armstrong. I think everybody knows this one. And in it, there's a line that talks about the bright, blessed day and the dark, sacred night. But when I was a kid, I thought the line was,"The bright, blessed day, and the dogs say,'Good night.'" Now, does this make any sense whatsoever? No. But I accepted it, in part because, first and foremost, it matches those intonation patterns and it also matches at those pitch peaks, the vowels, the, the syllables that are up at the top. And then in the parts that were less salient, that were less emphasized in those pitched valleys, I let myself make up the rest. This also reflects why effective speakers, when they're speaking, will emphasize the most important words with higher pitch. Now, tonality, if we use it strategically, can have a good influence on our very first impressions in attempting to establish ourselves as leaders from the moment we meet somebody. It's really important, of course, to, uh, make a good, strong, memorable first impression, but this is difficult when a lot of people feel like they're not even good at remembering people's names. You ever feel like that? Well, I'm going to absolve you of about half of that blame, and that's because when most people introduce themselves to you, they pronounce their own names wrong. Okay. Well, technically, maybe not wrong, but they pronounce them in a way that uses a rhythm and an intonation pattern that does make it more difficult for you to understand what they're saying. And by the way, I absolve you of only half of that responsibility because the other half of the time, you're the one introducing yourself to somebody else. So if I wanna note that I'm introducing myself and helping the listener to really understand my name, and by understanding, then they can hopefully remember it, and thereby remember me, I wanna start by letting my voice go up. Go up like this on your first name as if to say,"I'm not finished yet." And then at the top, we'll have a little break, that little pause that will allow for a sound break to indicate a word boundary. And then on our last name, we wanna go down, let the pitch fall as if to say,"And now I'm done," like you're putting a little vocal period at the end. So instead of blurring your way through your introduction like,"Hi, my name is Laura Cecola, and blah, blah, blah," I wanna focus and help my listener to understand, and so I'll do my best to say to them,"Hi. My name is Laura Cecola." And you'll be amazed at the difference that strategic tonality can make even in something this small. Now, of course, if we're haphazard in our use of intonation and putting it in the wrong place, we can have the exact opposite effect. We can distract the listener's attention from what's most important and make it harder for them to process what we're saying. And one of the most common and, in my opinion, annoying examples of this that's becoming more and more prevalent in society nowadays is a phenomenon called upspeak, otherwise known as uptalk, or more technically, high-rise terminal. And that's the pattern where people are talking and they keep adding these question-like tones at the ends of all of their phrases and sentences, you know? Like they're implying a bunch of little okays and rights one after another, like there's some sort of deep-seated insecurity and pathological need for constant validation. You know? The problem with talking like that is that what ends up becoming emphasized is just whatever randomly falls at the end of the phrase. It doesn't help anyone to process what you're saying, and that monotonous lilting upswing time and again can be rather hypnotic. And so after a while, we don't really know if the audience is listening to anything we're saying, much less what. Uh, by the way, I should also point out that this is not just a valley girl kind of phenomenon like a lot of people seem to attribute it. More and more nowadays, this vocal crime against humanity is being perpetrated by men and women, old and young, highly educated and lesser educated. So congratulations, guys, you've closed the gender gap. Way to lead. So from there, one of the other issues is that when people, of course, hear upspeak, they tend to have a very negative and even visceral response. It's not only the antithesis of vocal authority, it's almost like the vocal equivalent of hair twirling, you know? So when people have that visceral response, this will bring us to now talk about the emotional effects of voice. Let's start by thinking about some people who have really distinct voices. We'll start with James Earl Jones, perhaps best known as the iconic voice of Darth Vader. Now, in my opinion, with that deep, rich bass voice that he has, he could read the ingredients off the back of a bottle of shampoo and it would sound like poetry. But he probably would not have been as successful if he had tried to play the role of Elmo on Sesame Street. Right. You know. What about someone like Fran Drescher with that completely unmistakable, whiny, nasal voice right out of Queens, New York? Right. She was great on TV as the nanny, but she probably would've been less successful as Darth Vader. Right. Can you imagine her standing over Luke Skywalker saying,"Luke, I am your father." It just so doesn't work.Now, that's a great voice for comic relief, but it's not necessarily the voice that you want to encounter when you're looking for a funeral director. It's all about context. In the funeral context, you're looking for someone who sounds sympathetic, who sounds compassionate, who sounds like you can trust them to take care of you and your family during your time of greatest emotional need. And the problem is that when we find someone who has a voice that we find unpleasant or somehow that seems to l-lack the characteristics of the kind of person we're looking for, doesn't sound like that kind of person, we can tune them out. We can sort of shut down, and we don't even wanna hear the rest of the message, no matter how important the information is. Subconsciously, we really want the messenger's voice to fit the message. Now, does that mean that vocal executive presence is about acting? No, on the contrary, it's the exact opposite. You have to be authentic. You have to be yourself. But the key is to recognize which parts of your personality need to shine through in a particular moment and how to transmit that through your voice and speech style. Now, you're listening to me here today, in part, because the way that I'm presenting to you makes sense to you and will match your expectations for what a TED Talk speaker should sound like. But I can't use the same speech style when I'm talking to my three-year-old nephew. He'd wonder what happened to Aunt Laura because I don't sound like fun anymore, and he'd probably stop playing with me. But at the same time, I can't come here today and talk to you in the same way that I talk to him. Can you imagine if I started by saying,"Hey, everybody, I got a great idea. Let's talk about vocal executive presence." You'd be like,"Are you kidding me? Who is this nut? What can she possibly know about leadership or executive anything? And for that matter, who invited her?" And by the way, it was them. Um, so I call it working your prismatic voice. In the end, I'm not acting. It's just a matter of recognizing and being aware of the two audiences' different needs and expectations, and then identifying which parts of my personality I wanna let come through and how in order to ensure your openness to my message. And with regard to the notion, the metaphor, the prismatic voice, in many ways, in the same way that white light will pass through a prism and break into all the colors of the rainbow that make up that white light, when the white light of your personality passes through the prism of some situational context, you need to look at all of the colors that are available, all the different parts of your personality, and decide which one you need to highlight in the moment and how in order to be most effective and appropriate for that moment. And if you can figure out how to do that successfully, then you can create your own unique and authentic sound of leadership. Thank you.
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Your speech delivers a clear, memorable idea: leadership presence is not just what you say, it is how you sound. The arc from “executive presence” to a practical name-introduction technique and the closing “prismatic voice” metaphor gives the audience both a tool and a bigger framework.

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One of the hottest topics in leadership communication right now is executive presence. What does it mean, how do you define it, and can it be taught? The Center for Talent Innovation breaks it into three pillars: appearance, communication skills, and gravitas. Gravitas is where your words have teeth. It is whether you can make tough decisions and stick with them. But there’s a missing link woven between communication skills and gravitas, and it’s what I call vocal executive presence. If you want to be seen as a leader, you have to sound like one. Here’s why this matters. I work with people preparing for presentations and press conferences, and they’ll say something like, “We’re very passionate about helping children and improving the quality of our schools.” And I’m thinking, “Really? Because you could have fooled me.” They have the right words, but the voice doesn’t match. That mismatch creates a credibility problem. Research helps explain it. There’s a historic study on how people judge feelings and attitudes when verbal and nonverbal cues are consistent or inconsistent. When listeners evaluated whether a speaker sounded sincere, thirty-eight percent of that judgment was based on tonality, meaning the ups and downs of intonation. Only seven percent was based on the words themselves. The remaining fifty-five percent came from nonverbal cues like posture and eye contact. Now, people love to misquote this into “fifty-five percent of all communication is nonverbal.” That’s not what the study says. What it does support, along with subsequent research, is this: sounding credible is not a small detail. It is a major part of whether people trust you. And yet, think about how you prepare. Do you spend thirty-eight percent of your time working on delivery? Most people spend almost all their time on content. The outline, the script, the slides, the graphics, the data. Then they wing the delivery and hope it’s good enough. That is exactly how strong content ends up landing weakly, and how your message can undermine your goals and your reputation. The good news is you have more control than you think. Margaret Thatcher is a great example. Early on, opponents mocked her voice for sounding shrill when she got passionate. When she ran for prime minister, she worked with a tutor from the National Theatre to lower her pitch so she would sound more authoritative. Your voice affects listeners cognitively and emotionally. Cognitively, strategic tonality helps people process what you say. We listen in chunks, and we anchor on the intonation pattern, especially the pitch peaks. If you’ve ever sung the wrong lyrics to a song and never noticed until someone pointed it out, you’ve experienced this. In What a Wonderful World, the line is “the bright blessed day, the dark sacred night.” When I was a kid, I thought it was “the bright blessed day, and the dogs say good night.” It makes no sense, but it fit the intonation pattern. The peaks lined up, and my brain filled in the valleys. That same principle can help you make a stronger first impression, starting with something as simple as your name. A lot of people say their own name in a rhythm and intonation pattern that makes it harder to understand, which makes it harder to remember. So try this. Let your voice go up on your first name, as if to say, “I’m not finished yet.” Then take a small pause to create a clean word boundary. Then let your pitch fall on your last name, as if to say, “Now I’m done,” like you’re putting a little vocal period at the end. Instead of blurring, “Hi my name is Laura Cecola,” you land it: “Hi. My name is Laura Cecola.” Of course, when intonation is haphazard, it can do the opposite. One increasingly common example is upspeak, also called uptalk or high-rise terminal. It’s when phrases end with a question-like rise, as if you’re tacking on a string of little “okay?” and “right?” The problem is that it randomly emphasizes whatever happens to fall at the end of the phrase. It makes you harder to follow, and after a while it can be almost hypnotic. People stop listening. And emotionally, voices carry instant meaning. Think about James Earl Jones as Darth Vader. With that deep bass voice, he could read shampoo ingredients and it would sound like poetry. But he probably would not have been as successful as Elmo. Now think about Fran Drescher. She was perfect as the nanny, but imagine her as Darth Vader saying, “Luke, I am your father.” It does not work. That’s because we want the messenger’s voice to fit the message. A great comedic voice is not what you want from a funeral director. In that context you want someone who sounds compassionate and trustworthy. When a voice doesn’t match what we need, we tune out, even if the information matters. So is vocal executive presence just acting? No. It’s the opposite. It’s authenticity with awareness. It’s understanding what this audience needs from you right now, and allowing the right parts of your personality to come through in your voice. I’m speaking to you today in a style that matches what you expect a TED Talk speaker to sound like. But I can’t speak to my three-year-old nephew that way. He would stop playing with me. At the same time, I can’t come here and speak the way I speak to him, either. That’s why I call it working your prismatic voice. White light passes through a prism and breaks into all the colors of the rainbow. In the same way, when the white light of your personality passes through the prism of a situation, you choose which “color” to highlight so you can be effective and appropriate. If you can do that, you can create your own unique and authentic sound of leadership.

Point

One of the hottest topics in leadership communication right now is executive presence. What does it mean, how do you define it, and can it be taught? The Center for Talent Innovation breaks it into three pillars: appearance, communication skills, and gravitas. Gravitas is where your words have teeth. It is whether you can make tough decisions and stick with them. But there’s a missing link woven between communication skills and gravitas, and it’s what I call vocal executive presence. If you want to be seen as a leader, you have to sound like one.

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Here’s why this matters. I work with people preparing for presentations and press conferences, and they’ll say something like, “We’re very passionate about helping children and improving the quality of our schools.” And I’m thinking, “Really? Because you could have fooled me.” They have the right words, but the voice doesn’t match. That mismatch creates a credibility problem. Research helps explain it. There’s a historic study on how people judge feelings and attitudes when verbal and nonverbal cues are consistent or inconsistent. When listeners evaluated whether a speaker sounded sincere, thirty-eight percent of that judgment was based on tonality, meaning the ups and downs of intonation. Only seven percent was based on the words themselves. The remaining fifty-five percent came from nonverbal cues like posture and eye contact. Now, people love to misquote this into “fifty-five percent of all communication is nonverbal.” That’s not what the study says. What it does support, along with subsequent research, is this: sounding credible is not a small detail. It is a major part of whether people trust you. And yet, think about how you prepare. Do you spend thirty-eight percent of your time working on delivery? Most people spend almost all their time on content. The outline, the script, the slides, the graphics, the data. Then they wing the delivery and hope it’s good enough. That is exactly how strong content ends up landing weakly, and how your message can undermine your goals and your reputation.

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The good news is you have more control than you think. Margaret Thatcher is a great example. Early on, opponents mocked her voice for sounding shrill when she got passionate. When she ran for prime minister, she worked with a tutor from the National Theatre to lower her pitch so she would sound more authoritative. Your voice affects listeners cognitively and emotionally. Cognitively, strategic tonality helps people process what you say. We listen in chunks, and we anchor on the intonation pattern, especially the pitch peaks. If you’ve ever sung the wrong lyrics to a song and never noticed until someone pointed it out, you’ve experienced this. In What a Wonderful World, the line is “the bright blessed day, the dark sacred night.” When I was a kid, I thought it was “the bright blessed day, and the dogs say good night.” It makes no sense, but it fit the intonation pattern. The peaks lined up, and my brain filled in the valleys. That same principle can help you make a stronger first impression, starting with something as simple as your name. A lot of people say their own name in a rhythm and intonation pattern that makes it harder to understand, which makes it harder to remember. So try this. Let your voice go up on your first name, as if to say, “I’m not finished yet.” Then take a small pause to create a clean word boundary. Then let your pitch fall on your last name, as if to say, “Now I’m done,” like you’re putting a little vocal period at the end. Instead of blurring, “Hi my name is Laura Cecola,” you land it: “Hi. My name is Laura Cecola.” Of course, when intonation is haphazard, it can do the opposite. One increasingly common example is upspeak, also called uptalk or high-rise terminal. It’s when phrases end with a question-like rise, as if you’re tacking on a string of little “okay?” and “right?” The problem is that it randomly emphasizes whatever happens to fall at the end of the phrase. It makes you harder to follow, and after a while it can be almost hypnotic. People stop listening. And emotionally, voices carry instant meaning. Think about James Earl Jones as Darth Vader. With that deep bass voice, he could read shampoo ingredients and it would sound like poetry. But he probably would not have been as successful as Elmo. Now think about Fran Drescher. She was perfect as the nanny, but imagine her as Darth Vader saying, “Luke, I am your father.” It does not work. That’s because we want the messenger’s voice to fit the message. A great comedic voice is not what you want from a funeral director. In that context you want someone who sounds compassionate and trustworthy. When a voice doesn’t match what we need, we tune out, even if the information matters.

Point

So is vocal executive presence just acting? No. It’s the opposite. It’s authenticity with awareness. It’s understanding what this audience needs from you right now, and allowing the right parts of your personality to come through in your voice. I’m speaking to you today in a style that matches what you expect a TED Talk speaker to sound like. But I can’t speak to my three-year-old nephew that way. He would stop playing with me. At the same time, I can’t come here and speak the way I speak to him, either. That’s why I call it working your prismatic voice. White light passes through a prism and breaks into all the colors of the rainbow. In the same way, when the white light of your personality passes through the prism of a situation, you choose which “color” to highlight so you can be effective and appropriate. If you can do that, you can create your own unique and authentic sound of leadership.

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